DEAR HAUNTED: Unless your friend asks you outright for your thoughts, keep your family’s history with this name to yourself. For your friend and her husband, it brings joy and excitement, and learning of your experience with it can only make them anxious and stressed, which isn’t good for any parent-to-be.

Dear Annie: My adult daughter was close friends with a woman, her husband and their two teenage daughters. When her friend moved across the country, my daughter was heartbroken, but they continued to talk, text and email almost daily. My daughter even traveled across the country and considered the possibility of moving to a nearby town.

She recently shared the baby name she and her husband like the most so far. Unfortunately, in my family, there have been two babies who were given this specific name, and both were stillborn. You can imagine how unsettled I was when I learned she was considering it.

I’m not very superstitious, but I feel like it’s bad luck, and I can’t help but get chills every time I hear that name. Should I share this with her? Thank you for your advice. -- Haunted by a Name Dear Haunted: Unless your friend asks you outright for your thoughts,