"She was also wearing a patterned dress when I specifically asked all my bridesmaids to wear solid colors (they got to pick their own dresses ... Never miss a story — sign up for PEOPLE's ...

The woman's best friend since third grade is getting married in October, but in the months leading up to the wedding, the bride has asked her maid of honor and five bridesmaids for their opinions ...

Both women were crying their eyes out ... Kate messaged Meghan in the days leading up to the wedding, expressing concerns about the bridesmaid dresses - specifically Charlotte's.